It took me 4 and a half years to open myself up to someone new after I broke up. Most of that time was because I couldn’t open myself up to someone new, fearing I would get hurt again. It took me a while but not too long to get over the relationship. We were so unhappy the last year we were together. You’re absolutely right though. There’s no timeline for this thing. You take however much time you need. Sending you lots of healing and hugs, love. This too shall pass ❤

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